Judgemental – We all are somewhere Judgmental, “Mental’s” judging others through own perspective.
Let me be more precise, with some common societal judgement we often hear.
A Divorced women is a home breaker.
A vulnerable Man is feminine.
She is single, She is demanding.
In-Laws are toxic.
Working, Ambitious women don’t make good wife/ mother.
How could he/she never be in relationship.. ( this is something extreme level taboo๐) As per society one have to be in relationship orelse you will be judge as lier.
Ladki Hui hai.. Ek aur chance is mandatory. ๐ค (This is something going on from centuries)
Higher education for women Why?, When Kitchen is the limit.
Supportive husband – Not a good Son.
A good caring Son- Not a good husband.
“Shadi karlo” is equal to Settled Life.
And etc. etc. Many more such creepy judgements. They stop us from understanding other person’s situation life traumas and opinion. This attitude distance us from people,We often develop trust issues and hamper a good healthy communication.
Judgement is a wall of illusion we build around us. It’s like if a person lies very frequently he/she is likely to judge the other person as lier it’s all in our head..
Life is beyond our stupid judgements it’s all about an open communication sharing our deeper thoughts and fearโฅ๏ธ๐
The more insecurities the more tendency to be Judgemental on the converse the more we trust the more we become Non- judgemental..
So waiting for what trust.. more.. love more and ofcourse Live moreโบ๏ธ๐ค